1. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the room.
According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and
nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you
are in a room (and what youre doing) has a lot to do with your ability
to attract women. Where should you be for the highest impact
and the greatest number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center
of the room, standing up and moving around a bit. (But dont pace a
track on the carpet for goodness sake…)
2. THE COLOR LURE
What color can you wear to compel the women to approach you?
According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the
Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, women
are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why wouldnt they be?
According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are stable,
faithful, constant and always there. The blue guy is a fantastic
candidate for a long-term relationship - someone whos dependable,
momogomous and can match his own clothes.
3. BODY TALK THAT REELS EM IN
How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex? If
youre a woman, the key is to make yourself approachable. According to
nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker,
Patti Wood, you want to make yourself a safe (read approachable)
target. How do you accomplish that? Dont take up a lot of space (which
is a sign of power and superiority.) Wood says, we are strong women,
but remember, were trying to get a man to come over and talk to us.
She explains, you have to show you have room for someone else in your
life.
For men, appearing more dominant effectively draws the
attraction of women. To attract women, stand with your feet 6-10 inches
apart, and toes pointing outward. Feel free to take up some space. For
men who are victims of the nice guy badge, or who appear to be too
submissive to attract women, try taking your Y chromosome out for a
spin. According to Mehrabian, men should try wearing bulkier or more
conservative hairstyles or clothing, hold your head up, and speed up
your speech and gestures to be more assertive.
Body language tips for both sexes: Dont fold your arms and
dont chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. According to Wood, the
chewing indicates anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very
attractive emotions.
4. THE POWER OF A SMILE
Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most
important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and
approachable) is to smile. Not a great big plastic game-show smile,
just your normal Im having a great time and Im happy to be here
face will do the trick. According to Wood, the smile is the
international signal of friendliness.